SCHOOLDAYS
By Mabel Jones
A typical school day started with the household arising about 4:30 a.m. Mom and Dad had six girls, but back when I was about ten years old, they only had five. One of those, Melba, was only five yrs old. Then the youngest, Helon, was only a baby. Our little brother, Ross Eaton, Jr, came between Melba and Helon. He only lived seven weeks. He was born in Dec. and died in Jan. He had double pneumonia. He was such a pretty little fellow.
Melba was only five but, as far back as I can remember, she was a smart little thing. She was as smart as I was lazy. Anyway, when the school day started, we all had our chores. Two of us would get our buckets to go to the cowpen. We had two cows, they were Jersey cows. They gave lots of good rich milk. Dad had a good place for us to put the cows to milk. Each one had her own pen, which was a covered pen built against the big garage. Each was about 8ft by 8ft, and had a
trough built in it for the feed.
The first thing we did was put a generous amount of dry feed in the trough. Then we washed the cow's bag and dried it good. I really don't remember learning to milk cows. You could sit and daydream while you were milking and, in the wintertime, you could lean against the cow and she
would be so warm to you. While we were milking, our dad was drawing water for the livestock and putting feed out for them.
Mama was busy getting breakfast. To me, breakfast is the hardest job .You want everything hot, but getting each thing to stay hot is almost impossible. That is when the warming closets on the stove come in handy. Back to the routine; Melba is busy helping Mama. She could put the plates on the table, the silver and cups, etc. She could also get the stovewood in to keep the woodbox full. After breakfast we got ready for school.
All of this going on with no electricity. We would move the lamps from room to room. I don't remember it being so bad though. We didn't have a car, so we walked to school. On a cold winter day, it would be beautiful. Frost and ice everywhere and the ground all icy and spewed up. I can still hear the crunchy sound our feet made, and how invigorating the cold air was and how quiet and clean everything was on this cold, clear morning walk to school. It was just pure country.
The road is blacktopped now, houses have built up along the way. That is progress. I know there has to be progress, but so many times it takes a lot away from our memories of days gone by. I console myself by pulling out my memories and thumbing through them like going through a beloved book and I can relive a lot of "just Country" that way. Cause you see,that is what I am. Thanks for listening.
Mabel Jones will be 84 this year, 2000. She was born before computers, televisions, or cell phones. She was raised on a farm near Florala, Alabama without electricity or running water, during the Great Depression. These stories are copyrighted and reprinted with her permission. Mabel may be reached at [email protected]
Her web page with about a hundred stories is located at, "http://goodoledays.net"
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AMERICA'S IMMIGRANT
By Arthur
As Told To His Daughter, Clementine
I was born far, far away in S�o Miguel, the Azores Islands, off the coast of Portugal. I was one of nine children and my parents were very, very poor. My father was a farmer who worked very hard in the fields from sun up until sun down. Because my parents were so poor, my older brothers and sisters had to leave school at an early age to help my father till, plant and harvest the fields.
My mother was a domestic servant who worked for some rich people. This couple had only one child, a daughter, but no sons. I was extremely lucky because these rich people liked me so much that they paid for me to attend Catholic school. They treated me the same way they would have treated their very own son. They wanted me to have an education and a good life and not have to work hard in the fields the way my father and my older brothers and sisters did. Every morning though, before I could leave for school, I had to help my mother by taking care of my baby sister, Maria Louise. I had to feed my sister, change her diaper and rock her to sleep. Sometimes I would be late for school because Maria Louise wanted to laugh and play and wouldn't go to sleep for me. I loved Maria Louise very much, just as your brothers, Bob and Rick, love you. I became very attached to Maria Louise, not only because she was my beautiful baby sister, but because I took daily care of her, just like mommy takes care of you.
In school I loved to read about far-away places and particuarly about America where there were many opportunities and where I secretly wanted to live. I didn't say anything to anyone about this though until the day when the couple my mother worked for said to me, "So, Arthur, what do you have planned for yourself when you finish school?"
"Well," I said, "I have a secret dream but I don't think it will ever come true, so I haven't told anyone. I haven't even told my parents or my godfather since they would be very upset about my idea. Besides, I have no money to make my dream come true. More than anything in this world, I want to finish school, get on a boat, and leave this island to go to America. I've read in school all about America and what a beautiful country it is with a good government. In America, I can build a golden life for myself...why, in America, I could become a business owner and make lots of money! I could send money to my parents to help them so they would not have to work so hard! They could buy pretty clothes for my sister, Maria Louise! I cannot do these things here because I will have to help my father in the fields, just like my brothers and sisters. What kind of a life will that be for me?" I asked very excitedly and nervously as I revealed my secret to them. "Others are going to America and I want to go, too!"
"Arthur, you are young and smart and you are very strong willed with a big heart...and you are right in everything you are saying. Suppose we talk to your godfather about what you have confided to us? We will ask him to speak to your parents about your dream. Since your godfather is also the parish priest, perhaps he can make your parents listen and understand. Your parents have respect for him and they honor his wishes. We will try our best to make your dream a reality. If your parents agree to let you go, we will pay your passage to America for you."
I was extremely excited but I was also very afraid that, once my godfather revealed my secret to my parents, they would become angry at the idea of my leaving the old country and perhaps give me a bad beating. Why, my dad might give me a licking with a stick or perhaps his belt! They would know I wanted to go far, far away to America which meant that we would probably never, never see each other again.
Much to my surprise and delight, however, my parents agreed to let me leave my island homeland when my godfather, the priest, explained that I needed to leave in search of a better life for myself, not because I didn't love them. I left as soon as I finished school and as soon as the rich people could make the arrangements for my passage. Everyone cried when it was time for us to say good-bye. I was excited about my new life in America, but it was also difficult for me to leave my family because I loved them so deeply.
The boat ride to America took several weeks. When the passengers saw the Statute of Liberty and Ellis Island, we fell upon our knees, crying, praying, and thanking God for our safe arrival after our long voyage across the ocean.
When you were born, I named you Clementine because that was the name of the only daughter of the generous, loving couple who paid my passage to America. I had promised them I would do that in their honor, to show my appreciation, if I ever had a daughter.
Many years later I sponsored your aunt, Maria Louise, so she and her family could come to America and build a better life for themselves. Whenever I sponsor immigrants from the Azores, I insist they become citizens of the United States. I give lessons so they can learn the Pledge of Allegiance and everything they need to know to become naturalized citizens. I want you always to be proud, my daughter, that you are an American and never take your freedoms for granted. Remember my humble beginnings and respect your country's flag, grateful that you were fortunate to be born in America where freedom rings and you have unlimited choices and opportunities. Living in America is truly a blessing from God. When you say your prayers tonight, my beloved daughter, remember to thank God for His treasures.
From 1900 to 1955, over fifteen million people immigrated into the United States of America seeking a better life for themselves and their families. In 1917, my dad, then just a young man of only sixteen years of age, was one of those fifteen million persons. You can contact Clementine at [email protected]
Her web page is located at http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/5239
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GRANNY
By Maggie Anderson
I loved my "Granny." Although I had 2 grandmothers who lived with us as I was growing up, I was always closer to Granny Ford. She was my mother's mother. My father was a carpenter and in the early 50s when I was about 5 or 6 we left Houston and moved to central Texas, where Daddy built our house on Lake Whitney. He also built 3 duplex cabins for our "fishing lodge", which was a second source of income. With 3 sons and 3 daughters to raise, it was needed!
Daddy also built a duplex cottage a couple hundred feet behind our house where my two grandmothers lived, side by side. They were simple 1 room cottages, each with a small kitchenette and bathroom, probably just the right size for a grandmother with few possessions but a big heart. They stayed pretty much to themselves, but came up to "our house" for dinner a couple times a week. When I was growing up, I never thought of them as anything but my grannies, someone to love and someone to love me. It has only been in recent years that I began to wonder what they might have thought of each other? Two in-laws living side-by-side, in a house built by their son-in-law or dependent on the generosity of their daughter-in-law? Such an arrangement might not be as workable today, but back then it was a different time.
I was the caboose-end of 6 children, three boys and 3 girls. We were step-laddered up by age 2 years apart, except for my twin brothers, so our ages were pretty spread out. I guess I didn't really always feel like I fit in with the others; I wasn't overly studious, I wasn't dreaming of boys, and I wasn't an athlete. I liked to hunt and fish, but I wasn't as serious about it as the others that were. I was just me. My brothers and sisters probably thought I tagged along too much, but I didn't (They may say otherwise!).
Every now and then I would decide I would be happier living somewhere else, so I would "run away from home" for a couple days to my Granny. Pretty safe, huh? Being only a couple hundred feet away I could still see anything that was going on up at the "big house", see visitors come and go and know when my brothers or sisters were going swimming or playing basketball. I always wondered why my mom or dad didn't come bring me home. I would see them at some point during the day and they would say something like "Well, how's it been? Is everything okay with you at Granny's?" It always kinda bothered me that they seemed to see my "running away from home" as a fun thing to do, whereas I saw it as a bold statement of my disatisfaction with the status quo at home.
It wasn't until I became a mother myself and had read all the latest child-rearing techniques (!) that I realized I had been hoodwinked by my own parents! It was when I saw it in black and white in the latest child-rearing book that I saw how the technique worked...In order to allow the child to maintain good self esteem, show basic concern for the child's welfare, but allow them some space to work out their basic problem. I have to admit, I've used the technique many times with my own boys, but it always concerned me that they did not have the safety-net of a Granny living a few hundred feet away.
Granny was always so accommodating when I came to her on one of my "run-aways." We would play cards and bake cookies. She didn't have a tv until later on, but we would listen to the story shows on the old radio. She taught me to crochet and to help stitch her quilts. But what I remember most, and what brings up a crystal clear recollection when I close my eyes, is the smell of her perfume. She wore lilac. Ohhh, it was so sweet! She would show me how to dab a little behind each ear and on the pulse points, and then a drop on the nose while she sang "a little dab'll do ya" from the Brylcreem commercial, and always followed by a granny hug in her soft and ample lilac scented bosoms.
After a few days of Granny-love my defiance would soften and I would be ready to return to the love of my parents and siblings, who were always ready to welcome me home ... well, until the next time! My Granny died when I was about 16, but I know she continues to watch over me from her lovely cottage in the heavens. She's probably baking cookies for little cherub girls, and dabbing them with lilac scented water, and loving them in her tender, ample bosoms. I think of my Granny from time to time, more so now that my boys are approaching the age of one day making me a "granny." I can only hope that when my sons have children of their own, they will come to think of me as I have my own grandmother. When my boys were growing up, I would never let them call me "Mama", because my mother was Mama. And likewise, my grandchildren will have to call me Nana, or Grandma, or some other endearing name, but not Granny ... for there will never be another like my Granny.
Maggie was one of those unfortunate people who was jerked up at a tender age and moved to the wilds of Austin, Texas. But, her sons were lucky enough to move back to Houston. Maggie can be reached at [email protected]
Her web page with stories and poems is located at